Posted in Travel/Vacations

Mickey and Minnie Mouse Inspired

This is why Valeria became obsessed with Mickey Mouse lol

We’ve been staying with my mother-in-law for the weekend, we always stay here whenever we are in my husband’s home town. And she has had this Mickey Mouse since Christmas I believe.

Valeria has been obsessed ever since she could see it. She has since added Minnie Mouse to the crew, on a much smaller scale.

But Valeria now stares at them and just laughs, tries to bite his nose (cause everything needs to be “eaten”) and just loves to topple into him. It’s quite funny to watch how excited she gets about playing with the stuffed toys.

So, I’ve made the very VERY early decision to theme her first birthday as a Vintage Mickey and Minnie Mouse theme. I’ve already started my search for decorations, it’s gonna be tough to find the vintage looking stuff. But I’m up for the challenge and so excited! May even attempt to make some of my own decorations…maybe.

Inspiration can be found anywhere, just have to notice the signs!

Ciao Tutti!!

Posted in Health & Wellness

I Can’t Today

I’m having all sorts of feelings and things going on, that sadly I am not going to post today. Partly from quitting smoking and just personal things going on.

I apologize, but I can’t focus on writing a post in this state, it’s not fair to me or you.

Much love going out to all of you and I hope you had a wonderful Saturday wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in Holiday and Traditions, Travel/Vacations

Good Friday

I apologize for not answering to comments this weekend, unfortunately it’s going to be a bit hectic with the traveling and family time, but I promise I will get to them on previous posts!

Today all of my family members had off from work, they get Good Friday instead of Monday for Easter. We had already had plans with my husband’s side to spend the weekend, but we missed spending time with my family last weekend for….personal issues which I will get into at a later date.

Thankfully my mother and oldest brother decided we would have a get together today. Initially it was going to be dinner, but because we were to leave for my mother-in-law’s, I asked if we could have like a lunch instead. They happily obliged.

I wasn’t suppose to be the one to cook, but somehow I’m always delegated as the chef for all family functions these days. I really need to stop being a good cook, I could use a break occasionally. I personally would have made a much simpler spread, but my mother bought it all, so I cooked what she thought everyone would like.

Our tradition since we were kids was to eat fish on Good Friday. My Nonni (which is grandparents in Italian) were very religious and that what stemmed this tradition. I think I was the only one to follow this today in the family. I made the chicken chow mein dish (something I would have never made for today if it were me). Some salmon with cream cheese on bread, cod, all sorts of shrimp preparations, calamari, asparagus, vegetable pancakes, pita with hummus, rice and then later on dessert.

Photo courtesy of my husband

Now, I was happy to do all this and it was delicious, but I will admit my menu would have been a bit different. But everyone seemed to enjoy everything and it was an amazing time together. The kids got spoiled with chocolate and gifts, Valeria gifts and not so much chocolate. Though she did get a small package of Hershey Eggies which I ninja’d. My husband doesn’t know yet, but wait until he reads this!

I always forget to take pictures when I’m busy cooking and running around like a mad woman trying to make sure things are done and people are fed. I really need to start just snapping more photos and carrying my camera with me everywhere. Damn it! Speaking of that, I forgot to bring my camera to my mother-in-law’s. D’oh!

By around 6 PM, people were getting ready to leave and we really needed to hit the road before it got too late. Especially for Valeria. We left the city around 7 PM, making a quick pit stop for grumpy pants not wanting to be in her car seat. Quick diaper check (Niente), but man was she hungry. She wanted to be fed by my husband being held. Let’s just say it was a bit chilly for all that nonsense, though we did it anyway, enough for her to calm down and get back into her car seat. Then off we went. We saw quite a few cops along the way, but the drive on the highway was smooth. It was good and we made it in great time too. I love car rides and traveling, but man I could have napped the whole way! I didn’t sadly.

We made it safe and sound, my mother-in-law got to spend some good quality time with Valeria tonight. They were having a grand old time, laughing and playing together. It was really nice to see. Plus, my mother-in-law bought her a nice little summer outfit. I’ll take a picture when I can of it. It’s too cute!

Anyway the day was amazing and lots of good quality family time. I’m going to call it here because I’m utterly exhausted.

What did you do for Good Friday? Any weekend plans?

Ciao!!

Posted in WP Prompt

Bonus – WordPress Prompts – Named

This is going to sound insane but…

A bear or some crazy cute, weird new found aquatic sea creature from the deepest depths of the ocean. Those are the only two things that I would want named after me. But the bear would win out every time I won’t lie.

Imagine, this big fluffy, clumsy cub falling out of a tree named Daniela. It’s perfection, don’t you think?!

Ciao!

Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

Splish Splash

This will be a nice, short and light-hearted posted today. Valeria has figured out how to splash during bath time, more like soak mommy while daddy laughs.

We were giving her a bath yesterday and though it’s amazing to watch her learning something new everyday, this one takes the cake. She still uses the baby tub cause well, we don’t have a regular bath tub in the house. Not sure what we’re going to do once she grows out of this little tub, but we will figure it out.

Anyway!

She usually grips onto the edge of the tub while my husband holds her and I bathe her, but last night as she was laughing at her reflection in the mirror, her hand came down into the water and made a splash. She looked at her hand, my husband started to laugh and then BAM. A bigger splash, soaking my arms. For the rest of her bath time, she was splishing and splashing, soaking my shirt and arms. It was pretty funny and the pure joy on her face was priceless. I wish we had a video of it.

She was so pleased with herself and it fascinated her to see the water do that. I guess I can finally introduce her to some bath toys.

The rest of bath time was uneventful, but we went about our after bath time routine. Even after all the excitement during bath time, her lavender lotion got her nice and sleepy.

I love watching her learn and grow each and every day.

When did your little one first start splashing in the tub?

Ciao!

Posted in Extra Tidbits

Small Update on Salem

I was planning to post about my sourdough bread fail, but I’m going to save that for another day.

I thought I’d update you on my cat Salem instead. She is doing much better! My husband and I opted to not take her to the vet, but to do a little research and try some alternative methods/foods.

We went to the pet store and found this food specific for digestion (something the vet claimed was being worked on but not out yet…hmm weird…) and well we only bought a few cans to see how she would like it. Let’s just say she DEVOURS IT! We will definitely be going to pick up a case.

I’ve been monitoring her water intake which seems to be increasing since I got her one of those continuous flowing drinking fountains and huzzah! Her litter box was full of little….droppings. And today there was a big dropping. I don’t know what to call it, fecal matter? That sounds so medical….ugh…it’s droppings. We will all have to live with that now…you’re welcome!

I’ll continue to monitor her, but she is in MUCH better spirits, coming out for love and affection. She doesn’t stink and well she’s going to the bathroom. I’d say we had some success! Pft, sometimes I don’t know why I go to the vet…all I’m going to say about that.

Cats really do have nine lives though, don’t they?!

Ciao!!

Posted in WP Prompt

Bonus – WordPress Prompts – When I grow up…

*Hums The Pussycat Dolls’ song..*

Who really remembers this? I mean when I was five I’m pretty sure I wanted to marry a Disney prince, live in a castle and sing to all the little woodland animals while I coloured.

But seriously, I guess if you asked my mother it was to be a singer. I was singing all the time as a little girl and in front of whoever/wherever I wanted.

Can’t get me to do that now! Too shy for all that.

Not an exciting answer, but it’s me.

Ciao!

Posted in WP Prompt

Bonus – WordPress Prompt – Good Morning!

What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like?

Well that depends on the day, but typically in the first hour of my day, it looks a bit like this:

  1. Get out of bed and tie up my hair
  2. Bathroom
  3. Run to turn on the coffee maker
  4. Feed the animals and let the dog outside
  5. Brush my teeth
  6. Wash my face and put on anti-wrinkle cream
  7. Lotion on my hands/arms
  8. Change into comfy clothing – generally sweat pants/leggings and a tank top/sweater
  9. Check to see if my daughter is awake – usually she just lays in her crib quietly until she sees me or my husband
  10. Change her diaper and throw the old one away

That’s a basic day generally, but it varies from day to day. My daughter can be unpredictable at times for when she wakes up and if she wakes up fussy, well that’s a whole different ball game!

Mom life, am I right?!

Ciao!

Posted in Reviews

Bonus – Docuseries – The Program: Cons, Cults, and Kidnapping

Title: The Program: Cons, Cults, and Kidnapping

My Rating: 👍

Released: 2024

Genre: Documentary, True Crime

Number of Seasons: Docuseries – 3 Episodes

Director: Katherine Kubler

Cast: Katherine Kubler, Alexa Brand, Dominick Bolella, Allison Chee, Diana Nowak, Janja Lalich, Maia Szalavitz, Thomas Houlahan

Setting: 2024, video evidence from early 2000’s

Where to watch: Netflix

Plot: Years after being sent to a disciplinary school, a woman who is haunted by her experiences decides to expose the corruption and abuse of the troubled teen industry.

My Opinion:

I love true crime anything and this was on my watch list as soon as it came on Netflix. It’s always hard to watch documentaries regarding the abuse of children/teens and this was no exception.

It tells the stories of Katherine Kubler and her fellow “classmates” as they are kidnapped and taken to this institution for troubled teens. However, like most of these types of places it was rampant with physical, mental, and sexual abuse. Absolutely disgusting for these adults to have even participated and work for a place in which this was happening. They didn’t even question their job roles and the disciplinary actions being used on these children. Makes me question their moral compass, don’t you think? What’s even worse is that the parents were brainwashed enough to believe in this program.

This isn’t the worst video evidence I’ve watched in a documentary related to child abuse, but it certainly hits you like a ton of bricks, especially when the victims recount their experiences themselves. It’s heartbreaking to watch and listen to.

But this sheds light on a larger problem and the fact that these institutions and “programs” geared to help troubled youth are not regulated and aren’t really thoroughly looked into. It’s scary to think there is an entire umbrella company that is still in full operation. It’s the long con to reap as much money from these poor unsuspecting parents, ultimately using cult techniques to turn the parents first then the children.

It’s incredible the amount of people they re-encounter through this process of discovery, attempt at healing and so forth. Even some of their abusers in which they attempt to speak with was revolting to listen to/watch. Some had remorse, while others did not.

There was a light at the end of all this darkness, it seems that they are attempting to pass bills in the U.S. to have these institutions regulated and so forth. Sadly, the bills keep being met with resistance and road blocks. What will it take? Teens have died due to abuse in these programs/institutions.

Ultimately, I feel like this documentary only scratched the very dark surface of the topic at hand and the organization of these institutions. You can sense the trauma that these individuals are STILL going through. The joking and laughing is clearly their coping mechanism for what they all endured, which those watching this can only imagine unless you lived it yourself.

This was hauntingly good and definitely recommend watching it, especially if you enjoy true crime. But be warned, it may be difficult to watch, I know I had to watch the episodes in intervals.

My only dilemma with this documentary is the title, they kept referencing work the program so I feel that would have been a fitting. Though I can understand why this title was chosen.

Otherwise…

Thumbs up!

Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

Screen Time and a New Favourite

My husband and I decided very early on that we want to limit the amount of television/ screen time that Valeria gets. Obviously it is next to impossible to keep them away from technology unless we decide to give up our cell phones, computers and television (and we don’t have tablets, we don’t like them personally). But we can monitor how much exposure she gets from these things.

We are trying to be more conscious of not being on our phones when we are around her, though I sometimes find that difficult since I text family and friends most of the time, I will admit I am worse then my husband some days. But when she is up from naps, we try to play and focus on her. We have established some new games called Monkey and Crashed Rocketship….I’ll leave that your imagination, but I imagine you can guess what it entails.

However, even though those are now favourite games of hers, this post is regarding television. We’ve allowed her a little bit of television here and there; she started out with Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and now (even though she is too young to understand it at the moment) she loves Bluey. Both great shows and have some sort of life lesson or educational purpose to it. Though I have to say that as soon as she hears the theme song for Bluey she immediately goes quiet and begins to laugh.

She doesn’t last long though, she watches an episode of either of her shows than goes back to playing with her toes, various toys or with me. Not much of a television kid, which I’m okay with. At least it gives me a short break from trying to entertain her.

I will occasionally put fish on the television, she likes staring at the aquarium and the noise it makes. She constantly laughs at the bubbles the fish create. It’s funny to watch, man the things kids are interested in is fascinating.

Needless to say, we will never keep her away from technology, it can be helpful in a lot of ways. We just don’t want her to be like those children who are so dependent on it that they want nothing else. We want her running, playing outside, getting dirty and to be adventurous. To learn from her surroundings and embrace life outside of a monitor.

We are trying to be more aware of that too and embracing life a little more. Kids learn by example right?

So are we wrong as parents to want her more in nature and to use her imagination over being glued to a screen all the time? I don’t think so.

What are your thoughts on kids and screen time?

Ciao!