Posted in Monthly Goals and Recaps

🧣 Bundled Up in November: A Mom’s Monthly Recap

Hey everyone out there in virtual land!

I suppose this is a little late, but better late than never right? So let’s just jump into it because honestly, it’s going to be a short post.

I’d say this was a pretty good month, considering I wasn’t putting a whole lot of effort into my goals. I really just wanted to enjoy the month and all the celebrations within it. To be honest, I’m sure this month (December) will be much of the same.

Hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

Tiny Paws & Christmas Awe: The Sweetest Surprise for My Parents

It’s no surprise Valeria has my love for animals and they seem to gravitate toward her too. I swear cats and dogs just b-line for her as soon as they see her. I adore it.

To shed some light, we were not the only ones who lost animals this year, my parents did as well. There is always a great sadness with the loss of an animal, but also a great emptiness too. To come home to a pet who just loves you, gives you companionship and affection without any condition is amazing. You begin to miss it all and I know, just like myself, that my parents (especially my mom) are missing it too.

SO….

I adopted a kitten for them.

Yes, you read that right, I adopted a little female kitten for them. She is all black, short-haired, with brownish-yellow eyes. She is very shy at first, but warms up quickly and man is she full of energy and LOVES to play.

Anthony and I went to pick her up on Saturday morning at the SPCA in his home town. I fell in love with her little face immediately. We completed the paperwork, paid and back home we headed. Valeria had quite the surprise when she came home from Grandma’s house that day. We kept the kitten with us for the day/night since my parents were going out of town for a party.

Valeria was obsessed with her! She was playing with her, chasing her around, trying to hug and kiss her. And she was so concerned with giving her food and water, she kept pointing at her bowls going “Apa” (water) or “Eat…eat”. She even picked up her food dish and tried bringing it to her at one point. She kept wanting to see her when we weren’t with her, so before bed we brought her down to say good night to the kitten. As we were down there she laid down next to her and said “nani upstairs…” and so my husband and I asked her if she wanted the kitty to sleep with her and she nodded and said “mhm”. It was the cutest thing ever. We brought her up to bed shortly after, informing her that she can see the kitty in the morning.

I spent the night playing and spending time with the kitten on and off, but needless to say, we all adored her, even Anthony who claims to not be an animal person. I beg to differ on that opinion.

The next morning, the very first thing Valeria wanted to do was to go see the kitten. I got the kitten’s food ready and we spent part of the morning with her. It was my birthday so we did go out for a bit.

But that afternoon, we headed over to my parent’s house with quite the surprise. They were so excited! Which is exactly the Christmas surprise I wanted for them. Valeria was glued to the kitten at grandma’s house. She was a bit sad when we had to leave at the end of the night, but we explained that it was going to stay at grandma’s house. Unfortunately, when we got home she asked for the kitty and then said “at grandma house now” and we had to tell her yes and that we can go whenever she wants to see her.

We went over today to see my parents, my brother and the kitten. The kitten is now named Raven and she has warmed up like crazy and has everyone wrapped around her little paws. Her and Valeria were playing the whole time we were there, they are buddies.

And surprise…

We are adopting Raven’s brother! We pick him up on Friday so more to come on that. We think Valeria growing up with a kitten of her own was a great idea since she is so great with animals. Plus, it will grow up with her! I’m looking forward to seeing Valeria’s excitement on Friday.

Merry Christmas to my parents!

I hope you enjoyed and have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in Bookish Babble

Mini Book Review: Scary Book of Christmas Lore: 50 Terrifying Yuletide Tales from Around the World

Title: Scary Book of Christmas Lore: 50 Terrifying Yuletide Tales from Around the World


Author: Tim Rayborn


Genre: Horror, Christmas, Nonfiction, Folklore, Mythology


Number of Pages: 144


Book Summary:

You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen…but do you recall the most petrifying Christmas figures of all? Not all children fear just a lump of coal in their stockings. Discover the terrifying Yuletide fables that have horrified kids for generations. He sees you when you’re sleeping, he knows when you’re awake. He knows if you’ve been bad or good, so be good for goodness’ sake. This lighthearted song is a bit more ominous in the context of other Christmas traditions. From beasts that threaten to cook children into stew to sinister crones who snatch little ones from their beds, you won’t find any dancing sugar plums here. Outside of the heartwarming Christmas tales we all know and love, there are an abundance of frightening stories to chill all who hear them to the bone. Discover folklore from all corners of the world, These tales are sure to leave you wishing for the Grinch. Whether you are a fan of history and folklore, you love learning about different cultures, or you just want to give a holiday gift that will bring the joy of Christmas to that lucky someone (just kidding), The Scary Book of Christmas Lore is for you. ’Tis the season! Is it beginning look a lot like Christmas, yet?

My Thoughts:

I’m not going to lie, but this one caught my attention immediately when I was looking for some Christmas reads on Bookoutlet.ca. I can’t tell you how fascinated I am with the darker folklore surrounding Christmas or Yuletide for some. It’s mesmerizing and I think it intrigues a lot of people to know what folklore other countries believe. Honestly the most well known minion or companion (depends on how you look at it) of Santa’s is Krampus.

Come on, we’ve all heard of that one!

However, as intrigued as I was to read this book, I have to say that it had some interesting facts about terrifying traditions, holiday demons and so on. BUT I do have a few gripes about the book.

I found this book contained a lot of “may” or possibilities of unsure, which made me feel like it lacked research or just covering it’s bases in case the information was incorrect. Ultimately making me feel like I wasn’t learning some of the true history regarding the legend.

Another annoyance I found was the author’s attempt at humor or interjecting his own thoughts or opinions, sometimes even political ones. Which came off badly and made it seem that he just needed to add words to the page for length. I would have preferred a shorter chapter than the added “commentary”.

I did enjoy the book for what it was and learned about some interesting characters I’d never heard of before. Some were even quite terrifying, and I definitely have a few new favs – Perchta, Türst, Sträggele, Grýla, Winter wolves, Jólakötturinn – the Yule cat, just to name a few.

So if you do come across this little book, I strongly suggest you take it with a grain of salt, but definitely could have been written and put together a little bit better.

Hope you enjoyed and keep an eye out for the next mini review!

Ciao!

Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

Word Press Prompt – After Bedtime Is My Prime Time

Daily writing prompt
Are you more of a night or morning person?

I am definitely a night owl through and through!

I used to hate going to bed at night and my own parents would call me a night owl as a kid. It only got worse into my teens and adult years, to the point where I’d be up all night sometimes being a busy body or a total nerd gaming. Yup….I was one of those.

But for some reason, I always felt connected to the night; more productive, I ADORE the moon, more creative in the wee hours of the night and just feel more energetic.

To this day, I prefer being up during the night rather than the day, however my little one now dictates my schedule now so morning mama it is!

Hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in Extra Tidbits

Quiet Celebrations & Cozy Moments at 36

Happy Birthday to Mommy! As Valeria would say.

Yes, yes another year has gone by and I turned 36 yesterday….yeah getting one step closer to 40. Which to be honest doesn’t scare me in the slightest surprisingly.

My birthday was great though, until the end of the night, but don’t worry we will get to that shortly.

I requested a quiet and relaxed day, just to be and spend time with my husband and Valeria. Not expecting any sort of big celebration (I don’t like being the centre of attention especially on my birthday), I tend to enjoy something low key. I received plenty of wonderful birthday wishes from friends and family which started the day. Anthony and Valeria took me out to grab Starbucks; which I wasn’t able to get my free birthday drink and had to contact customer service online; who informed me their systems are having technical difficulty and I’d receive my coupon soon. Nevertheless, didn’t ruin the morning, then we were suppose to go to the pet store but it got late (more on that story in another post) and we decided to head home to put Valeria down for a nap.

She decided to take a big, long nap which was good since her molars coming in and her growth spurt have made her super tired these past few weeks. I was able to bum around and game a little bit…I know totally nerdy, but I enjoy it! Anthony went out to grab flowers for me while Valeria slept, which are absolutely beautiful. When she woke up, we went to the pet store and then over to mom’s for an impromptu birthday dinner/cake. Pizza and cake, reminds me of childhood, sadly I paid for it later. Valeria sang a cute and priceless version of Happy Birthday along with everyone else, but she was by far the loudest and cutest. It was incredible….hums ‘Happy Birthday Mooooommmy..’

We headed home around 7 and got Valeria right to bed, she was a bit of a cranky pants. Thankfully her eyes shut and she was out like a light snoring. I, unfortunately, was bloated and my stomach was in discomfort. Gotta love stomach problems! The rest of the night was spent in bed with Anthony, sipping peppermint tea and watching a new Christmas movie that was on Netflix – Jingle Bell Heist. Really good if you want a fun and different rom-com Christmas flick.

Eventually the night ended with Anthony passed out in bed and me heading down to the living room to writhe in discomfort quietly so I didn’t disturb him. Thankfully, it eventually subsided enough for me to pass out on the couch with the Christmas tree lights keeping me company.

The perfect day….regardless of the ending.

I hope you enjoyed my little birthday recap.

Have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in WP Prompt

Word Press Prompt – A Cozy Moment of ‘Me Time’… Featuring My Vacuum

Daily writing prompt
If you didn’t need sleep, what would you do with all the extra time?

I would love to say something clever and witty and be like ‘Oh I’d learn a new hobby’ or something like that but the truth….

Seriously you want the honest truth? You got it!

I’d clean the house spotless and then just keep it nice, tidy and completely up-kept for the rest of the time until it it needs another deep clean. I’m a busy mom with a tornado of a toddler, love her but trying to wrangler her with my husband makes it a bit difficult to do my daily/weekly cleaning sometimes. So, my house tends to be untidy with toys splayed in every room, laundry needing to be done or even put away, vacuuming, etc. Life right?

But it’s the honest truth, I’d clean. Plain and boring.

Hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!

Posted in Bookish Babble

Book Review: Ghost Camera

Title: Ghost Camera


Author: Darcy Coates


Genre: Horror, Paranormal, Short Stories, Fiction


Number of Pages: 341


My Rating: 💋💋


Book Summary:

They’re Always Watching…

When Jenine finds an abandoned Polaroid camera, she playfully snaps a photo without a second thought. But there’s something wrong with the image: a ghostly figure stands in the background, watching her.

Fixated on her.

Moving one step closer with every picture she takes.

Desperate, Jenine shares her secret with her best friend, Bree. Together, they realize the camera captures unsettling impressions of the dead. But now the ghosts seem to be following the two friends. And with each new photo taken, a terrible danger grows ever clearer…

THE HORROR HAS ONLY JUST BEGUN.

Full of rich bonus material, Ghost Camera contains even more chilling tales from USA Today bestselling author Darcy Coates, including:

  • A woman survives a plane crash in a remote arctic tundra, accompanied only by a stranger who seems fixated on something moving through the blinding snow.
  • A house stands empty. Hungry. Waiting for the children drawn to it like moths to a flame.
  • A woman finds a shoebox filled with old VHS tapes. They have a note attached: “Don’t watch. You’ll regret it.”


My Thoughts:

I finished this novel near the end of October, so I’ve been putting off this review a bit.

I should have read the description more closely when I looked at this one on Bookoutlet.ca, because when I read it quickly, I expected the vast majority of this novel to be about two friends who now have to deal with a haunted camera or ghost camera. It sounded intriguing and I figured the bonus stories would be closer to the end of the book. Boy was I incorrect.

I will credit the author for being majorly creative and I did find some of the other stories to be far more intriguing and much better written than the novels title story. In my opinion, I found Payment for the Dead, Death Birds, Untamed Things, A Box of Tapes creepy, eerie and all around captivating. I wish these stories were longer to be quite honest or even their own novels. I would have loved to have dived in deeper and gotten more nitty gritty and detailed.

However, the title story Ghost Camera was….lackluster at best. It felt a bit rushed, especially at the end and the character development was okay. I will say the friendship between the two girls was very well written and something I feel felt like was a genuine friendship you would come across in the real world. However, the story felt a little boring to be honest. I feel like it could have been extremely unsettling if it had been longer than exactly 100 pages.

Now let’s discuss the short stories I did enjoy briefly, shall we?

Payment for the Dead was about a man who falls on hard times and takes a job as a grave digger with a man named Pieter. Working in the cover of night, digging up bodies for cash just to get by and to provide for his family, especially during Christmas. This job paid double and occurred without warning. He was later informed that he stood in a child’s grave and the parents paid the witch outside of town to have their son back….

Creepy right! I won’t spoil it entirely, but it was so good!

Death Birds was about a doctor who is working his shift at the hospital when he notices a these supernatural birds or ‘Death Birds’ as they are known. According to the story, they show up with death is about to occur and they feast on the dead bodies. There was an unusually large number, hundreds if I recall in this one location….the hospital. They called in extra staff (nurses, doctors, etc) because they were expecting a large flood of patients due to some catastrophic event, however what they didn’t expect was it to happen right there at the hospital…

DUN DUN DUUUUUUN…INCREDIBLY WRITTEN!

Untamed Things was part of the excerpt on the back of the novel and frankly they did a pretty good job at a short description. This is about a woman who survives a plane crash and discovers there is only one other survivor. The woman claims to have experience in the frigid mountains that they landed in and fixated on moving forward so they don’t get caught by the creature following them. Eventually a rescue team finds her in the nick of time, but her companion is no where to be seen…

OOO, honestly so creepy and had me at the edge of my couch reading it!

A Box of Tapes was another excerpt on the back of the novel and once again, well done for a quick short description. A woman moves into a new home, in a new town with her daughter. She finds a box of old VHS tapes and attached is a warning note not to watch them. Curiosity killed the cat and she begins to watch the videos, disturbing imagery and unnerving events are depicted. What’s worse is that things begin to happen in her home and around her daughter which makes her begin to question and investigate what really happened within the tapes….who is that creepy woman? What is happening to her? Is she really seeing the woman in the woods?

To say this was so unsettling is an understatement, it is literally everyone’s worst nightmare! Incredibly well written and should have been a novel all on it’s own.

Sadly though, those were the saving graces of this novel. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t recommend reading this book personally and I had such high hopes for this one. However, I am not saying the author isn’t talented, like I said the few short stories I did enjoy in this were intriguing and you can tell she is a wonderful writer. So I have a few other novels on my TBR list by her that I will eventually get to. But sadly, for me, Ghost Camera kind of missed the mark.

Hope you enjoyed and keep an eye out for the next review which will be the novel Dumplin’ by Julie Murphy. This one I recently finished.

I’ll also be doing, what I am going to call, Mini Book reviews. It’s the first in the series and these will be books, magazines, etc that I finish quickly. So look out for Scary Book of Christmas Lore: 50 Terrifying Yuletide Tales from Around the World by Tim Rayborn.

Ciao!

Posted in Holiday and Traditions

🎄Ornaments, Giggles & A Mama’s Cozy Christmas Home

It’s been a minute, but this month has been weirdly busy, especially with birthdays. Not complaining just saying.

Plus, I decided to decorate yesterday for Christmas which had me and my mom searching a bunch of stores for a Christmas tree that didn’t cost an arm and a leg. Which was a feat let me tell you! She generously bought it for us because she wanted Valeria to be able to crawl under the tree Christmas morning to get to her presents and to help decorate since she understands now. I also needed to dig out our Christmas decorations from the basement, that was…..something…. All I have to say is thank goodness for my husband and his muscles. Those bins were heavy!

Valeria loves Christmas, it’s official and she takes after my husband. I enjoy Christmas too, there is something so magical about it. Family, friends, the twinkling lights, the incredible aromas from baking all the way to spiced wines, and even the snow (yes, I love having snow for Christmas, but then that horrible frozen water can shoo!). It’s a wonderful time of year and in our house, we celebrate the birth of Jesus.

But the tree went up and Valeria was super excited, she helped daddy unpack it and touched the leaves going “tickles, no hurt” repeatedly. It was cute and funny and when the tree was standing tall at 7 feet, she looks up and goes “BIG ONE!” Anthony and I started laughing at that one.

She decided after that to start taking the tops off the bins and remove whatever decorations her little hands could pull out. The toddler way is to make pure chaos and to assume mommy and daddy understand her method. How could we not right?! Eventually we changed her focus to decorating the tree, handing her ornaments and she would place them where she please and of course daddy would pick her up if she wanted to put one near the top. It was really nice to be able to decorate the tree together as a family. Not to mention, we made some some homemade salt dough ornaments together as well.

I opted to not buy any new ornaments, but instead utilize what I had, could make or were given to me and honestly, I absolutely love how everything turned out. I dried out some fruit as well and made some garland and ornaments as well. I also made Pomanders too! Oh my goodness the smell of orange and cloves is incredible! Unfortunately, the cloves were a bit pointy and too difficult for Valeria to help with this year, but while I worked on the pomanders, she proceeded to run away with a handful of my cloves and shove them into her toy calls. As she did that she would tell me “mmm nice smell!” She is such a funny little girl. Maybe next year she can help with them.

Hi from the t.v.!
My garland laid on-top of the faux greenery and Santa and his gnome helpers

I just wanted a more rustic, natural, nature based style with some old vintage feels. I think we nailed it on the nose. But we are pretty much done decorating for Christmas, and my faux fur tree skirt came in today, however the photos I’ll be posting here are from Sunday night.

But enjoy the photos and hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

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Word Press Prompt – Beach Bones, Mountain Heart

Daily writing prompt
Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why?

I haven’t done a prompt in a while and this one seemed interesting. So, let’s dive in shall we!

In my younger years, I would have said the Beach. I could live at the beach; especially if it was by the sea with the salt water blowing on my face, the sun beaming it’s warmth on my skin, the sand between my toes and the sound of the waves was just pure tranquility. Not to mention I was literally a fish out of water, I could spend the whole day in and out of the water with minor breaks for food and drinks. Finding shells, rocks, sea glass, driftwood and even sometimes bones while I walked along the sand was a treat. My daughter has taken my spirit for the beach instead these days and it makes me yearn for a beach vacation on her behalf.

However, since my late 20’s and into my 30’s, I find the mountains and forest to be more of a serene and peaceful environment for me now. Hiking is my number one favourite thing to do and I wish I could do it more often, but unfortunately I currently live in a city where I am surrounded by a concrete jungle. Ideally, I’d love to move more north to be a bit more within nature. Though living within it would be even better! The calmness it brings is incredible, stepping away from technology and the fast pace of life to just enjoy your surrounds (the mountains, trees, plants, animals, etc) is magnificent. There is just something so special to me about it. It truly does calm me completely; mind, body and soul.

Maybe one day, I’ll live among nature with my family, but for now I’ll enjoy it whenever I can get to it.

Hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!

Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

☕November So Far… In All Its Warm + Messy Glory

Evening everybody!

It’s been a minute since I’ve written and I was going to post a book review…or two, however I’ve opted rather to catch you up on what’s been going on in my November so far. So, shall we?

First off, Valeria is growing like a literal weed and learning something new everyday. It’s astonishing the things that come out of her mouth. She is quickly becoming her own little human and knowing exactly what she wants and needs. If she doesn’t like something she will surely tell you!

Trying to navigate her feelings and emotions lately has been a struggle for her and us. She is truly a little ball of chaos, both good and “bad”. However, I am struggling to understand why she has suddenly been so hesitant to go down the stairs and with her potty training at times throughout the day. Is it a regression? Is she trying to push boundaries? If anyone has a clue, I’d love to be informed!

Speaking of potty training, might have to do a post on that….hmmm…

Second, I removed my fake nails and went to just shellac. Doesn’t last nearly as long (shellac chipped after 3 days and one my nails broke from being so fragile), however I felt like this was a bit more cost effective for the future. Or if I even continue to do it. Times are rough here in Canada and my money can definitely go elsewhere.

Third, I cut off my hair. Let that sink in for a moment…. I’m not just saying a little trim since my hair was half way down my back. I mean full on chopped it off. One side shaved and a little bit edgy, which suits my style. HOWEVER, it was a little shorter then I had intended, so I’m going to grow out the longer side a bit.

BEFORE

And here is the AFTER

Drastic right? Yeah, I’ve had a few moments where I’ve doubted that I did the right thing and wondered if it made me look too masculine. But, no turning back and hair grows. It’s always kind of been my motto when I do short hair cuts.

You might be wondering why I did this though and it wasn’t just for the change of style or a fresh start. All valid reasons included in this change, but ultimately I was sick of pulling out chunks of my hair all day long. I was shedding so badly I couldn’t handle it any more and it’s not just from postpartum. I’m severely anemic and that’s just one of many wonderful symptoms I’ve been dealing with the past year. A tale for another day.

Fourth is that we celebrated Silas’ 1st birthday (one of the nephew’s on my husband’s side of the family) and it was great. He was a smiley and happy boy through his whole party and it was wonderful to celebrate with everyone. The kids had a blast running around and playing together. My favourite part of the whole day was all the kids helping to blow out the birthday candles (Valeria included) and when Silas took his first bite of his cake. Those little eyes went so wide with happiness, it was magic.

Fifth, I took down all our Halloween decorations and put them away. I went to bed spooky and woke up festively kooky. Haven’t started decorating for Christmas yet, but maybe next weekend. We’ll see.

Sixth is that we were suppose to visit family this weekend, however they all got sick even the baby. So I have been keeping in touch throughout the week and told my cousin for them all to rest and recover. We can always plan for another weekend, but no rush. I know when we aren’t well, we just want to be left alone. With winter fast approaching, it might be a weekend in the spring time.

And that’s about it right now and nothing else really to report. Other than a mountain of chores, ideas floating in my head on how to make Christmas more vintage, homey and warm. Along with a ton of other things floating around in there. Ahh got to love anxiety and over-thinking!

I hope your November is going great and that it’s been nice and cozy so far. And I hope you have a wonderful day or night wherever you are in the world!

Ciao!!