Posted in Daily Life as a Parent

Screen Time and a New Favourite

My husband and I decided very early on that we want to limit the amount of television/ screen time that Valeria gets. Obviously it is next to impossible to keep them away from technology unless we decide to give up our cell phones, computers and television (and we don’t have tablets, we don’t like them personally). But we can monitor how much exposure she gets from these things.

We are trying to be more conscious of not being on our phones when we are around her, though I sometimes find that difficult since I text family and friends most of the time, I will admit I am worse then my husband some days. But when she is up from naps, we try to play and focus on her. We have established some new games called Monkey and Crashed Rocketship….I’ll leave that your imagination, but I imagine you can guess what it entails.

However, even though those are now favourite games of hers, this post is regarding television. We’ve allowed her a little bit of television here and there; she started out with Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and now (even though she is too young to understand it at the moment) she loves Bluey. Both great shows and have some sort of life lesson or educational purpose to it. Though I have to say that as soon as she hears the theme song for Bluey she immediately goes quiet and begins to laugh.

She doesn’t last long though, she watches an episode of either of her shows than goes back to playing with her toes, various toys or with me. Not much of a television kid, which I’m okay with. At least it gives me a short break from trying to entertain her.

I will occasionally put fish on the television, she likes staring at the aquarium and the noise it makes. She constantly laughs at the bubbles the fish create. It’s funny to watch, man the things kids are interested in is fascinating.

Needless to say, we will never keep her away from technology, it can be helpful in a lot of ways. We just don’t want her to be like those children who are so dependent on it that they want nothing else. We want her running, playing outside, getting dirty and to be adventurous. To learn from her surroundings and embrace life outside of a monitor.

We are trying to be more aware of that too and embracing life a little more. Kids learn by example right?

So are we wrong as parents to want her more in nature and to use her imagination over being glued to a screen all the time? I don’t think so.

What are your thoughts on kids and screen time?

Ciao!

Posted in WP Prompt

Bonus – WordPress Prompt – Don’t Believe Me, Just Watch!

This is a long list, but I will keep it short. Hope you enjoy my weird movie/T.V. show choices!

T.V. Shows:

  • Gilmore Girls
  • Supernatural
  • The Munsters
  • Outlander

Yup, that’s it! I watch Gilmore Girls every year come fall and Supernatural, well that’s just a given, Dean Winchester….enough said! The Munsters, just a classic. And Outlander….oh Jamie and boy do I wanna travel to beautiful Scotland!

Movies:

  • Klaus
  • Grease (1978)
  • Mama Mia
  • Army of Darkness
  • Click
  • Scream
  • Silence of the Lambs
  • Wedding Singer
  • Grown Ups
  • Just Go With It
  • Sixteen Candles
  • Practical Magic
  • Two Weeks Notice
  • Alice In Wonderland (Original animated from 1951)
  • Titanic
  • Twister
  • Jaws
  • Breakfast Club
  • Angry Birds
  • Dirty Dancing (1987)
  • Footloose (1984)
  • Addams Family
  • The Crow
  • The Mitchells vs. The Machines
  • The Notebook
  • 365 Days
  • Hotel Transylvania
  • Pretty Woman
  • The Craft
  • A Castle For Christmas
  • Single All the Way
  • Love Hard
  • The Holiday Calendar
  • Three Wise Men and a Baby
  • Holidate
  • Miss Congeniality
  • Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
  • Chocolat
  • Through My Window
  • Troy
  • Chef
  • The Ugly Truth
  • A Knight’s Tale
  • The Family Man
  • Gone in 60 Seconds
  • Indiana Jones (All of them)
  • Tyler Perry’s Madea Movies (All of them)
  • Why Did I get Married? & Why Did I get Married Too

I’m sure there are so many more, but these are all the ones I can currently think of. Hope you enjoyed the list! Let me know in the comments if you’ve seen any of these or maybe some you haven’t.

Ciao!!

Posted in Reviews

Bonus – Television Series Review – Griselda

Title: Griselda

My Rating: 👍

Released: 2024

Genre: Biography, Crime, Drama

Number of Seasons: Tv Mini Series – 6 Episodes

Creators: Carlo Bernard, Ingrid Escajeda, Dour Miro

Actors: Sofia Vergara, Alberto Guerra, Martin Rodriguez, Juliana Aiden Martinez

Setting: Miami, Florida during the 70’s and 80’s

Where to watch: Netflix

Plot: Griselda chronicles the real life of savvy and ambitious Colombian business woman, Griselda Blanco, who created one of the most profitable cartels in history. A devoted mother, Blanco’s lethal blend of charm and unsuspecting savagery helped her expertly navigate between family and business leading her to become widely known as the “Black Widow”.

My Opinion:

An interesting story and to be honest, one I had never heard about. Everyone knows about famous Columbian Drug Lord Pablo Escobar, but who knew about this woman? I enjoy a good Crime/Drama as much as the next person, heck the movie Blow with Johnny Depp is one of my favourites. But this one took me by surprise and it was the talk of the “town” aka everywhere this past two months.

Sofia Vergara plays Griselda Blanco, a woman who flees Medellín, Columbia and ends up in beautiful Miami, Florida. Where she begins her difficult climb to the top in a male driven drug trade, only to learn that being naive doesn’t get you to where you want to be. She became ruthless and savvy in her tact, even monstrous at times. She slowly acquires her team of confidants, body guards and henchmen. Her once body guard, Dario played by Alberto Guerra, who later became her husband, was a bright spot in her darkened path. Attempting to be a voice of reason for her, only to be over shadowed by Rivi, played by Martin Rodriquez.

June, played by Juliana Aiden Martinez, is a woman attempting to make her mark in her career as a police officer. Her struggles pay off when her hunch is correct and she joins a tactical force designed to capture drug lords in Miami, Griselda included. Eventually she makes her mark in her career.

The whole series was intriguing and they really tried to humanize Griselda through it all, justifying her actions. However, actions have consequences, which lead to terrible consequences in the end.

Sofia Vergara was incredible all around. The physical transformation she had to go through with the prosthetics on her face must have taking hours, but looked flawless. I couldn’t have chosen a better person for the role to be completely honest. But than again, I may be biased as I adore Sofia Vergara in general. As for the other actors/actresses, I had never seen most of them before and I can say they were fabulous as well. I would definitely like to see them in more television series or even films in the future.

With that all said, I have to admit that the last episode felt rushed, like they were just trying to tidy everything up in a neat little bow to finish off the series. I didn’t enjoy that at all. No spoilers, but I wish they had got into more detail and time lines for certain things. Even extending it to another one or two episodes. It felt almost unfinished. That was definitely a huge negative in my book.

All in all, it’s an enjoyable watch, but with anything take it with a grain of salt. I’m sure her reign as a female drug lord was far darker then they made it out to be in the show. But I’d say go in with an open mind and just appreciate the brilliant acting, the setting and the story for what it is. If you are intrigued enough to look into Griselda’s life further then this, it’s your prerogative. But for me, I don’t care to know more then this.

Thumbs up all the way!

Posted in Travel/Vacations

Last Minute Travel

I will make this short and sweet since it’s been a bit of a hectic evening.

I decided to go with my husband to his mom’s, but instead of heading home tomorrow we will be heading home Wednesday. If all goes well and our internet is fixed. It also gives my mother-in-law a chance to spend some quality time with our daughter.

We try to see her as often as we can, but Canadian winters can sometimes be unpredictable and horrid. Who wants to be out in the cold?

The decision was last minute so I had to pack for my daughter and I. I swear I bring three times as much now that I have a child, but I’d rather be over prepared than under, am I right? Yes…*nods her head* I am.

We made it to my mother-in-law’s in about an hour and 20 minutes. Great time and the highway wasn’t all that busy. Our daughter slept for about half the trip and she was just chilling in her car seat for the other half. We had a wonderful dinner when we got here of schnitzel, rice and veggies. My mother-in-law can cook! I’m very fortunate, let me tell you! She has made me fall in love with Romanian food…soooooo yummy!

After dinner, we all watched 90 Day Fiancé, a guilty pleasure of ours. We joke around and kind of make fun of it to be honest. I feel for people who actually go through the process of a K1 Visa, but you know half this shit is scripted for television. Plus, not sure any of these couples will make it to the alter this season, but we’ll see! I’ll keep ya posted.

Anyway, I’m off to bed. Pretty tried from the previous night and traveling today. I have an interesting post for tomorrow though so stay tuned!

Ciao!